If intercourse is no real friction comes into effect, frustrated the husband and wife equally, and prevents orgasm. What are the real reasons for the “Lost-Penis syndrome” and how more fulfilling Sex possible again.
On an anonymous Internet forum this call for help appears on the “My Vagina is too far, I can feel it during Sex, nothing more,” women complain. “My Penis feels in your Vagina really lost, it is much too large,” argue the men.
By the way, you convey that the error, if it doesn’t work during Sex, is often sought in the case of the woman, the women do. And, second, that for many couples, more fulfilling Sex, especially Penetration, and Mechanical means, although there are plenty of other variations, in order to reach the climax.
I’m already in?
But above all they show, however, that the pressure is high, if the Penis and Vagina can have no real contact, if not properly felt, whether or not the Penis is in the Vagina or not. Then all desire dissolves into Nothing. The main questions are then: What is the cause and how you can turn it off, so Sex is again pleasurable experience?
Lost-Penis syndrome – often both are “to blame”
If it is, however, really only one of the two partners is often not clearly determined. It is established that the Lost-Penis syndrome during Penetration to little or no friction. And friction is for the nerve stimulation in the clitoris, Vagina, and Penis is important, so that it comes to the climax and the subsequent relaxation.
The fact is that often both of these risk factors meet each other: Wide vagina, and a Problem with the Penis. It is, therefore, not only the woman but also the man or both partners.
Causes in women: permanently attached to a large vagina is extremely rare
But when a Vagina is too far? In the end it always depends on the subjective feeling. The exact dimensions, but that was it. As an approximate guideline, one to three fingers to fit in the Vagina. Still a lot of room, can be the vagina a bit far. Possible causes are:
The last three factors have on the tissue and the strength of the Vagina, you weaken the pelvic floor muscles. The Vagina is slack and wide.
What causes the man in question
Often, the Penis seems to be too small, what is the secret fear of many men. The good news is that Even a seemingly small specimens to grow during the erection to at the very least three times their original size.
Keyword: erection: it Is really hard, it can also generate a small Penis with the right technology in a wide Vagina friction and thus pleasure. The hardness, however, it lacks often. More than every second man over 40 years complains of erection problems, sexual medicine specialists, Frank summer, President of the German society for men and health reports. To blame for erection problems, certain diseases and our lifestyle are:
- Stress
- Smoking
- Alcohol
- High blood pressure
- Atherosclerosis
- Diabetes
- Overweight
Every man can be helped
Usually the trigger of erection problems by themselves, without medical help, fix. Because most men know the personal cause exactly, if they are honest. Clear that in the case of a 60-hour week and round the clock availability, whether by email or phone, the Penis is limp. This risk exists even after the evening bottle of red wine. It is also known that Smoking narrows the blood vessels (atherosclerosis). The first weakness in the Penis, obviously, because its artery is the smallest in the body and, therefore, deposits very quickly have an impact – as an Erection.
Diseases such as atherosclerosis, hypertension and Diabetes need to be clarified by the doctor. It determines the right treatment and recommends the appropriate Change in lifestyle. Often the erection right then. If necessary, you will be helped with PDE-5 inhibitors (Viagra, Cialis) on the jumps.
Women benefit from pelvic floor training
The best remedy for women with sagging, more Vagina pelvic floor training. Because the two main muscles that make up the pelvic floor, can train to become. This works with the postnatal exercises after the birth. No later than four months after the birth should be started. After a further five months the pelvic floor is as strong as it was before, the muscles and the Vagina again tight.
It remains, however, if regularly more pelvic floor exercises is done on a daily basis for a few minutes. By the way, many sports strengths types and the pelvic floor, such as Pilates or horse riding.
Vaginal tightening by surgery
Only in the rarest of cases, the Vagina after childbirth is strained so that the pelvic floor training helps to little. Then the possibility of a surgery, vaginal tightening. Usually, the surgeon uses sutures Specialist, such as after an Episiotomy. In addition, the natural suspension to be shortened ligaments of the Vagina.
In addition, cosmetic procedures, such as injections of Hyaluronic acid to plump up the Vagina. The gentle action, however, remains only for a few months and the injections in the Vagina would have to be constantly repeated (in cost per treatment from 800 Euro).
New, less expensive treatment options, such as radio frequency therapy, to stick with a Warmth to the Vagina to tighten, many see German gynecologist is still critical. Long time not foreseeable and, therefore, not assess the consequences, such as malicious changes
Point of contact for interested women
Women interested in surgery should contact your gynecologist, or better yet urogynäko lied. Appropriate Physicians who have qualified for the treatments and surgeries of the Vagina and of the pelvic floor, you will find, for example, in the case of the working group for urogynaecology and pelvic floor reconstruction.
Sex is a head thing
Couples who ask the question – is the Vagina or the Penis is too small – should so determine, first, whether there is really a Problem of “Hardware” and if a man and a woman, not the Mechanics, the keyword is friction, a give is of great importance.
Not the least of orgasm in a man and a woman is even known to have no external Stimulation – for example, triggered by dreams while Sleeping. Sex is a head thing, and for many sexologists, the brain is the most important sex organ in the human body. Do you Sex so like game, with more imagination, and not always just known as the “in-Out-in-Out-game”.
And if you are convinced nonetheless of the size of the Vagina and/or Penis desire to prevent full-on Sex, consult a specialist for advice before deciding rashly to a genital operation.