The contents
Excuse No. 1: “I Have a headache”
Excuse No. 2: “We’ll Wake the kids”
Excuse No. 3: “I Have PMS (or monthly)”
Excuse No. 4: “I didn’t shave”
Excuse No. 5: “the Children can go to the bedroom”
Excuse No. 6: “I didn’t go in the shower”
Excuse No. 7: “I’m stuffed and can’t move.”
Excuse No. 8: “I’m too cold”
Excuse No. 9: “I’m really hot”
Excuse No. 10: “I’m not in the mood”
Excuse No. 11: “I get up early tomorrow”
As you know, being in a long-term relationship, most women are indifferent to sex, which, of course, can not grieve their men. The pain in her head, then started my period… All of it sooner or later tempting the stronger sex to bleak thoughts and maybe even push to change.
TodayMagicforum call the 11 most common excuses women from sex and talk about the solution to the problem, when your lady refuses to carnal pleasures.
Excuse No. 1: “I Have a headache”
This is the most common phrase women who don’t want to have sex. We do not argue, there are really a situation when a headache (or constant migraines) did not cause any desire. But for the most part it’s just an excuse, and extremely smart. It has long been proven that sex can not increase the pain in the head and relieves discomfort. Men should know not to give excuses their women.
Excuse No. 2: “We’ll Wake the kids”
Children — is sacred, it is our future. So they should not be hurt by loud moans, slaps, and dirty words that can escape you during sex. However, the problem may occur once, twice, but not on a permanent basis. In the end, most children sleep very soundly. But nothing prevents you to install in your bedroom door, soundproofing. Or, in the end, do not scream, sweet moan in the ear of his partner. Millions of men and women having sex, having in the next room children and no one was injured. So why is your family an exception?
Excuse No. 3: “I Have PMS (or monthly)”
Times per month that phrase is permissible to pronounce every woman. Not all people like to have sex in critical days. Men can be quite squeamish in this matter. And wash the sheets after every sexual encounter love don’t really want to. And if the question of hygiene of you and your partner do not really care, you can have sex in the shower.
Excuse No. 4: “I didn’t shave”
If a woman has not performed the hair removal in any parts of the body, it is not a reason to despair. Of course, it will convince your partner that this is a catastrophic disaster, but in fact, the majority of men do not notice this shortcoming. The regrown hairs for men are not a problem, sometimes it’s even a real fetish. Therefore, the barrier with the words “I’m not perfectly shaven” — this is only for most women.
Excuse No. 5: “the Children can go to the bedroom”
If your children do not sleep, then Wake them up with loud cries and moans of course, you can’t. But to get to the embarrassing situation in the spirit of the best jokes possible. A fairly common situation when children come into the bedroom or hear what is happening on its territory. Of course, don’t wish it on any kid. But that is no reason to refuse sex. As a variant — install bedroom door with lock, send the child to walk or to grandma (friends), until they at this time have fun with your loved one. Believe me, all problems solved, if you want.
Excuse No. 6: “I didn’t go in the shower”
Hmm, let me ask you — and in what actually here a problem? What prevents the woman quickly to take a shower, brush your teeth, if you want to shave my legs or armpits (although, as we have seen above, it is men in most cases do not interfere)? As a rule, water in haste will not take more than 10 minutes, while your partner is languishing in anticipation of a stormy night. Besides, there is nothing wrong, as hygiene has to be.
Excuse No. 7: “I’m stuffed and can’t move.”
There is already more difficult. Time for digestion is quite long, at least an hour. If a woman really overeat, says, it is unlikely sex give her pleasure, because to move and come up with the carnal pleasures do not want in this state. As you know, overeating provokes a little lazy. And sex involves activity. There is only one way out — to wait until the food settles, then aktivnenko to burn all gathered for dinner calories. After all, sex is one of the most effective physical exertion.
Excuse No. 8: “I’m too cold”
Let’s not forget that sex is an activity, and it allows you to keep warm. Especially to do it under the blanket and even in the socks. There is nothing I could be ashamed of. Except for comfort. A strong man not only will not let you get bored in bed, and warm as it should.
Excuse No. 9: “I’m really hot”
In this situation, of course, it is better to refuse sex under the blanket and even in bed. But this does not mean that this is a great excuse sex. There are other places in which joy will continue to cool. For example, a shower cabin. Besides, if you are in a long-term relationship, it will be a great shake-up.
Excuse No. 10: “I’m not in the mood”
Of course, women have a lot of problems — the head has consumed the whole brain, children are not made “homework”, the mountain of dishes in the sink, and my husband wants to do nothing. Only sex requires that bastard! Where will the mood for an intimate evening? In this case, the advice to men: try to help the woman at home with children. Then her mood would improve, and for the same washed dishes you will be able to ask intimate rewards. Sure from constant worries about her wife will not be denied!
Excuse No. 11: “I get up early tomorrow”
Somehow, it is believed that the sex is tedious and time-consuming activity that all the forces of men and women will eat. Like it was to unload cars. No, no and no again! It should be clearly understood that sex is an integral part of a relationship, so you should not refuse him such stupid wording. It is only in erotic films sex is incredibly much time. But in reality, most couples average sex lasts 10-15 minutes. Well, 30. If you take before going to sleep this time, for the morning will be in a good mood.
Version of Medicforma does not exclude that there are real situations when not in the mood or have a headache, for which it is impossible to have sex, and the failure of women (and sometimes men) completely justified. In this regard, the most important to be able to talk with each other, to trust, not to lie, and try to make the relationship as open as possible. Then no excuses from sex is not required.