The best way to keep the family from disintegration

Scientists say: no need to go on about their “second half” and to fulfill all their requirements – just ignoring the requests of its partners in a marriage is a good way to keep it. Обэтомнеобычномисследованиипишетjournal of Personality and Social Psychology.

American scientists from the University of California at Los Angeles conducted two experiments involving over 500 couples, and couples who just met or were separated. All spouses in the family grew up at least one child, 40% of families had a low financial income. In all these pairs the “locomotive” was a woman, which is something demanded or requested. The men would like to agree with these demands, and to refuse their partners.

The study authors found a curious pattern. It turned out that in poor families males ignoring the requirements of their “halves”, helped to keep a smooth and stable relationship without quarrels and other challenges. When men in couples with low income did not challenge women and did almost everything the way they wanted, or were denied to women in an aggressive manner, satisfaction with the couple relationship decreased. Couples who were in relationships but were not bound by vows, a similar trend was observed.

“Ignoring query to the second half proved to be one of the most reliable ways to protect the family from destruction, especially for poor families”, – stated in the summary of professionals.
At the same time, in rich families the failure of men to satisfy their wives led to the disintegration of a relationship.

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